Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Happy Heavenly 3rd Birthday, Luke

It is a tradition in our family, that on the boys' birthdays, I recite to them the day of their birth--what happened, how we felt, etc. So, to keep with that tradition I shall retell Luke's story to you, for he is not here to hear it himself.

On November 30, 2007, I was partly in charge of the Annual Adult Christmas Party for our ward. I was very pregnant, but wasn't due until December 23rd, so I helped in the kitchen, made sure the program was ready and went on. The night was crazy and I was running around a lot! We got done cleaning up after the party was over, around 9:30 P.M. Not bad, I thought. Brian and I went home to an empty house because Tina decided to let our boys sleep over at her house. I was so tired that I went to bed shortly after we got home. I was having some contractions, but I didn't think much about them. At 1:30 A.M., I started timing them. By 4 o'clock they were three minutes apart and I woke up Brian. And we zoomed to the hospital. I shall fast forward here so as not to bore you. . . . still fast forwarding. . . . wait for it. . . okay, long story short, after 14 HOURS of labor, Luke finally arrived. He was posterior and they tried to turn him 4 times to come out correctly, but he decided to come out the way he wanted to. He was 6 lbs. 6 oz. and 21 inches long. Luke Hulet Taylor had finally arrived in our family on December 1, 2007.




Luke only got to experience one earthly birthday. But it was a big bash. I hosted Thanksgiving in 2008 and decided to tack Luke's 1st Birthday onto the festivities. My entire family and some of Brian's was here to witness this great occasion. Now, as I think back, I am grateful to have had that to share with my family.




Turning over the calendar to December, seeing Luke's Birthday typed right there, and not having him here is indescribable. I thought the more time that passed, the better this would be. Not so. Time has torn his memories from me. I forget a little more every day, and it is unbearable not being able to remember him-what he sounded like, what he smelled like. What I wouldn't give. . . to be with him for this day.






We love you Lukey and wish you a Happy Heavenly 3rd Birthday!

5 comments:

tracey said...

I can't find the words, but know that I am thinking of you and your family and so grateful for the gospel to hold on to in hard times. You are a great example.
What a wonderful tradition, I may have to copy this one.:D

Anonymous said...

Happy Heavenly Birthday Luke! Jan and Brian and the boys: We love you guys so so much! Stephanie

Tina said...

Happy Birthday Cookie!!! We love you and your family!

Gramsie Gail said...
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Gramsie Gail said...

Spent Luke's Birthday at the Primary Children's Festival of Trees - a celebration of Life, Miracles, Memories and Giving.
Happy 3rd Birthday Luke.
We miss you!