Did you really say 15 YEARS?

15 years ago, at this time, I was getting ready to be sealed to Brian for time and eternity. Although I knew it was right, and I loved him, I was nervous, very nervous. . . .had I made the right decision. . . . was I ready to be married. . . . .would we be able to "make" it? All these questions did get answered through the years.
  

     

Our first year of marriage, of course, was an adjustment, but I think it was one of our best. During that year, I figured out that I had made the right decision and THIS boy was for me!!!! I loved being married. I loved running a house. I loved Brian!!

I learned so many things about him that I hadn't figured out while we were dating....like he could fix just about anything and I didn't have to call my dad up to fix it for us. He is a HARD worker. He takes pride in his job and everything he does. He NEVER complains about ANYTHING. . . .okay, that is not totally true, he has always complained about my spending habits, and he used to complain about my OCD with the house, but I have learned from him that having dishes in the sink is okay and he has learned from me that its okay to spend money. . . . .who are we kidding, he still hasn't learned that!!!

We have had the the normal ups and downs through the years. But, our 12th year of marriage solidified that we would "make" it together. We have survived the hardest trial either of us has ever had to endure and we are "making" it. We found strength and comfort and love from each other that has brought us closer together!

So, this morning, I asked Brian a few questions:

Question 1: What words of wisdom do you have for others who are getting married?
Answer: Don't do it! (with a grin)

Question 2: Are you glad you married me?
Answer: Yes (first serious answer ever. . . shocking!)

Question 3: Do you want to leave me?
 Answer: Not yet (I thought that one was hilarious--I guess we will have to see how the next 15 go!)

Happy 15th Anniversary, My B! I love you more than anything and I am so grateful that I found a husband and best friend in one man!!!